HOW TO BE A GOOD PERSON ??

HOW TO BE A GOOD PERSON

We must look to our inner feelings and our thoughts. Thinking
positive thoughts, trusting those that offer you friendship, and
dismissing both anger and hateful feelings, will result in a change
from within us. We will think good thoughts, thus we will become
good. We will do good, thus our entire persona will change. We will
trust, instead of distrusting. We will care instead of being
uncaring. We will help others in their time of need, instead of
sitting back and waiting for someone else to help. We will in
essence become a good person.

1. Start each day with a plan. Think of what you would like to see
   and do. Then think of someone who is lonely. Someone who, perhaps
   lives alone, and has no family. Ask this person to join you, in
   your plan for the day. Share your time with them, ask them for
   lunch. This might be the highlight of their week. Be happy by
   making others happy.
   
2. Offer to pet sit, when you know a friend is going on vacation.
   If you know a neighbor is sick, ask them if they need groceries,
   when you go food shopping.
   
3. Stop and talk to someone who is lonely, share a cup of coffee
   and pick up the bill.
   
4. Always be kind and never yell. Whatever you say, whenever you
   say it, do so in a calm, polite voice that is respectful to the
   other side.
   
5. Assume each person you meet is a good person, and act likewise.
   If you see someone do something bad, try to consider what they are
   dealing with in their own life, and try to help them stop without
   yelling, accusing, or otherwise negatively confronting him or her.
   Instead, try to discover what motivated their bad act, and show
   them how it was hurtful. At the very least, you can get them to
   stop and then take steps yourself to undo the damage done.
   
6. Whenever you can, try to help someone else. It could be at
   their work (or homework), at relationships and more. If someone
   asks you something, never dismiss them but try to be as helpful as
   you can, even if you don't do what they asked. You can suggest to
   another to do what they wanted or point out who can help them.
   
7. Help, even if you aren't asked. You should look around to see
   if someone needs help and help them without prompting. It can be a
   simple thing, to help someone with something that he seems to have
   difficulties in or something you think he needs or will need.
   
8. Make it a hobby to try every once in a while volunteer
   somewhere or do something really nice for other people.
   
9. Don't try to take credit when you're nice. There is a lot of
   satisfaction in watching someone do something because you've helped
   him when he doesn't know he's been helped.
   
10. Believe in the power of your actions to influence others. When
    other people see you doing good deeds, they will be reminded to
    take more positive action themselves. This is truly the Power of
    One to make positive change in the world.
    

• Whenever you are doing something, ask yourself the question "Am
  I hurting myself or others". If the answer is no, then you aren't
  doing harm.
  
• Imagine what you would appreciate, and then find ways to do
  those things for others.
  
• Adopt pets, it is an excellent exercise at kindness, plus it is
  being kind to help an animal. You can even "adopt temporarily" by
  offering to foster an animal and help resocialize it so that it can
  be permanently adopted by a family or other person.
  

Warnings

• Don't push your assistance on people who don't want it. If
  someone is telling you they don't want your help, just apologize if
  you presumed, and bow out gracefully.
  
• Don't be so nice and constantly helpful that people take
  advantage of you. Part of being a good person is helping others
  become better people. Doing everything for someone who is capable
  of taking care of him or herself is not helpful to either of
  you.
  
• Be nice to people that deserve your kindness, but don't insult
  those who don't. Help them become better people.
  
• Don't think only of the short term. The kind acts you perform
  today may teach someone to do kind acts for others - they will
  learn by your example, and because they were the recipient of
  kindness.
  
• Never act superior to anyone else. Your dedication to a
  particular creed, ideology, or set of guidelines does not give you
  the right to look down on anyone else. People are much more likely
  to look up to someone who others say is a good person than someone
  who goes around telling everyone how good he or she is.
  
• Don't forget that there's more to being a good person than
  simply doing good things. People often do right things for the
  wrong reasons, and wrong things for the right reasons. Think about
  how the way you view situations and decisions (your perspective)
  influences how you feel about yourself, how you feel about your
  friends, and how you feel about life.
  

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